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Memories For Memorial Day

By

Jason Greywolf Leigh

(U.S. Navy Veteran, Vietnam)

A Veteran never forgets Boot Camp.

The first thing you learn more readily than the back of your hand, is your Active Duty Service Number.

They told us that once put to memory; we would never forget it, for the rest of our lives. And they were right: I know mine better now than the back of my hand, just like way back when.

After you learn how to wash, properly fold and pack away all of your clothing, you learn how to ‘spit shine’ your shoes and how to bounce a coin off of the tightness on your square-tucked-cornered bed covers.

Then comes marching: rain or shine, freezing cold or sweltering hot, night or day. For most, it is in the learning of how to become a soldier that you change from boyhood into manhood, with the rest of your buddies who, just like you, are also learning how to become one solid, working unit; a Band of Brothers.

When you leave Boot Camp in your grand, dress uniform, you look at your buddies whom you went through a dramatic change of life with, and you wonder if you will ever see them again?

You remember all that you went through together in overcoming the many obstacles of the physical, emotional and mental of the military. You remember sharing stories and letters from home, and everyone passed around a picture of the girl or wife they left behind.

You see yourself in their taught, man-like faces that were on that very first day, the faces of surprise, suspense and uncertainty.

Then, as Departure Day arrives, you look around into their eyes and they look into yours, where you see trained men in uniform, soldiers all: ready to defend their country’s Honor in fighting a war.

You wonder who will come back and who will stay behind.

You dwell upon which one you will be.

The voice on the airport’s P.A. announces the plane departures and gate numbers, and it’s time to leave your youth and buddies all behind. Some you shake hands with, some you hug and they hug you in a forever memory that will never die.

Good-bye.

After your ‘leave’ home to show your family and friends what a fine soldier and man/woman you have become, comes the time for the final departure.

Some go straight to war. Others follow in the various tasks, which all make up the mighty wheel that moves the machine called war.

Each to his or her own specialized skill—some against their will—others are there, still.

It was called, “Vietnam,” in a land far, far away, to a ‘conflict’ that would not become a ‘war’ until years after it was all over. ‘Body Bags’ and ‘Peace Signs’ were invented on the same day, but in a different sort of way.

Young men and women, soldiers all, standing so tall not knowing who would fall—but all heard the call.

“To arms, to arms,” as the battles all raged on, and you wondered who would come back, and who will stay behind.

You dwell upon which one fate will call you to be.

The best of the best are honored with Medals and Ribbons a-glare, but the true Heroes aren’t so rare, for they are the ones who were left back there.

Then older you are when the smoke clears away, and the fight is left to the others who will continue the day and who will stay.

With scars well hidden by some and yet worn by many, you remember the memories of that first day to the last, when you dwelt upon which one fate would call you to be.

And Memorial Day comes each year as you remember the places and all the young faces in a silent, holy kind of sigh . . .

“Good-Bye.”

  © 2005 and 2006 

by 

Jason Greywolf Leigh

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